Individualism

  

                                                                                                             PROLOGUE                                                                                                                              Living in the world with only yourself in mind seems very self obsessed way of spending life ! We study all the time about its drawbacks , how it is beneath oneself to not care for others .In poetry it is one of the main topics . In ethical lessons , it lies on top . But any of us has ever wondered that there might be a flaw in the whole notion . I'm not saying that everything about it is wrong but to some extent I disagree .

The proposition behind the idea is every person himself gets the advantage or disadvantage for that matter , in case of his actions . Or "every person for himself . " One does not need to care or to think of other's advantages for the betterment of his own self . If everyone thinks about whats better for him , the whole community gets to share the results of success . Now , let us see how well this coincides with our daily life !

  "  The individual has always had  to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe . If you try it , you will be lonely often , and sometimes frightened . But no price is too high for to pay for the privelege of owning yourself . "

                                                  NITSCHE

ONCE 

Once a dervesh was sitting under a tree , an acquaintance of his arose saying " See ! that man is carrying a tray in his hand . I wonder where he must be going ? "  The dervish answered carelessly " How does that concern me ! " . " Oh my ! he is heading to your house " said the man in exclamatory voice . " Then how does that concern you ! " dervish mermered .

HERE AND NOW 

In our daily life , the effect of thinking is directly related to how we feel and often act . Thinking is an individual habit and it works best if done accordingly . It is intended to work that way which is evident to the fact that we all have our own mind . Imposing thoughts on others or judging others by a unique or particular thinking standard lead to all sorts of misunderstandings which on extreme results in chaos .                

He Came To Know Himself !

Our thoughts are shaped by our surroundings and always have a colour of society in them . One either loves or hates it's habitat but remain connected to it nonetheless . The Largest of it's effects can be seen when a whole nation is blamed on the count of one man . In a nutshell , nobody likes to be judged . If someone is praising you for what you havent done , he will most probably condemn the actions you never comitted !

GOD Help Those Who Help Themselves .

Let me give you a little example . Its a common notion that rich should help poors . Why should they do so ? People will say , ' its the right thing to do ' , ' It makes God happy ' and other things . This all things might be the reason but I say they should help poors to help themselves .Suppse there is an industrialist with lot of money ! He gives a little money to the poors every month . They in turn , go to his store to buy routine items . His sale increases along with his profits . He gets customers . So , by charishing poor , he helped himself grow his business . 

The same is true for every other aspect ! Those who obey laws should be afraid of the state police . Police should be answerable to public as it pays its dues . Its a cycle . You get what you give . If every one works for his own advantage , there will be no need of motivitating people to do good work other than what is expected of them . 

Same goes for the mind health . What someone thinks is not ours to be taken notice of . It will only cloud our minds . 

       "  It is important to foster individuality for only the individual can produce new ideas . "

                                                ALBERT EINSTEIN .

EPILOGUE

Allah is the creator most supereme , and He also made humans in accordance with separate individuality . We can always take suggestions from others , but what we ultimately do should be decided by us .